A co-worker just completed a divorce. She got into this disaster because she was not familiar enough with Dianetics. There are three kinds of love. One type of love described in Dianetics is 'compulsive love', caused by the reactive mind. This can happen when the reactive mind is in charge and getting you to do things that otherwise make no sense. This 'compulsive love' leads to bad relationships, broken homes, and so forth, all of which have a terrible affect on families and the workplace. It is so unnecessary. Anyone about to commit to a relationship ought to be thoroughly familiar with compulsive love, as described in Dianetics, the Modern Science of Mental Health. If my co-worker had done this, she would have avoided much misery and my job as a manager would be easier.